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We
are meant
to be happy
That has always been something we strive
for in this life. In fact, if we look at the motivations
behind our thoughts and actions—conscious and unconscious—they
are all to get us closer to the feeling, or at least the idea,
of happiness.
Some of us have long asked why we cannot
hold on to happiness. For all of the scholarship and human
insights across the centuries, nobody has found a complete and
enduring answer. Perhaps because it has been too close
to see…
The answer, the key, is our heart.
We have been told throughout our lives
to “follow your heart.” This has been written
in countless holy texts as well, across virtually all religions,
since the very beginning. This is because our heart - even without
us realizing it - feels the Love that comes from True Source,
who loves us completely, and always wants the very best for us.
In opening and using our heart, we are
blessed with lasting peace and happiness that we can feel—actually
and really feel—in our daily lives. Our
daily life is actually a manifestation of how strongly we are
connected to our Creator, the True Source. Thus, an open
heart is also the real key to our spiritual advancement in getting
closer to True Source, the Source of Eternal Peace and True Joy.
Why is our heart the main connection
to True Source? Why is our heart the center of beautiful
feelings? Why is our heart, not our brain or other parts
of us, the key?
Our heart is the key because our true
self is within our heart. Our true self that is
within our heart will continue to live on even after this lifetime
has been completed. While our physical body is only a
temporary “shell”—flesh and blood that will
one day turn into dust—our relationship with True Source
is eternal. We need True Source and True Source’s
Love not only when we are alive on this earth, but forever
and always,
As we are still in our physical body,
our heart (not the physical heart but the spiritual heart – the
center of our feeling) is where and how we remain connected to
True Source.
With this connection, our heart communicates
with True Source and receives True Source’s Blessings. In
receiving True Source’s Blessings, we can feel so many
beautiful things within our heart, including the feeling of lightness,
calmness, peace, happiness, and joy beyond all things we have
ever felt from our worldly experiences.
Being calm and joyful at every moment
of our life may sound fantastic, even impossible. Now recognize
that it is your brain making this judgment, imposing
this false limitation.
In this regard, you may have quite a bit of work to do in getting
out of your own way. Our brain is so strong—we have
spent so much of our life within our head—that it can overtake
our heart at the beginning. However, our heart knows that
peace, calmness, and happiness await us once we begin opening
and using our heart. It is only a matter of opening it
up to let True Source’s Blessing do the best for us.
How beautiful and exciting it is to consider
that all these wonderful feelings are within us at all times. All
we need to do is to open and use our heart to be able to feel
and enjoy these wonderful Blessings.
May you open your heart to the Creator
and use your heart to experience the peace, calmness, and happiness
within.
Irmansyah Effendi, M.Sc. |

Opening our Hearts
Opening our heart as big as possible
is the greatest gift that we offer ourselves and to the world. Opening our
heart has a profound healing affect on all levels of our being
as well as on our families and communities. The more we
allow our hearts to open, the more we can share love, for peace,
joy, and love radiates from the core of our hearts. If we really
listen to and feel our inner calling, we will realize that our
hearts want to open and let the light and love to do wonderful
things for ourselves, our families and communities.
When we open our hearts, we deepen our spiritual
connection to the True Source, and this allows us to live genuinely
and authentically in the sacredness of love. Then
we can begin to realize that the True Source, as the Ultimate
Source of Love and Light, has Loved us completely in every moment
of our existence. Indeed, there has never been a moment
in our existence, when this was not the truth, because
True Source can never stop Loving us and all beings.
(Note: We prefer the term ‘True Source’ because
it is a neutral term which does not have a charged history. Feel
free to replace the term ‘True Source’, with whatever
phrase for you which represents the Ultimate Source of Love
and Light).
Where does the Peace, Love and Joy
Originate?
The deepest peace and love that is available
to us in our earthly existence is the spark of light and love
in the core of our hearts. This spark is the purest aspect
of our deepest self and is directly connected to the Source of
Love and Light. The more we
allow the blessings of love and light to purify and open our
hearts, the more the Love and Light from
the core of our being becomes free to radiate in all directions
to every heart everywhere. Everyone
has a spark of love and light in the core of their heart. However,
not every spark is radiating freely and sweetly. When we first
begin to open our hearts, the nice feeling we experience may
only be felt as a peaceful and calm feeling. As the layers
of our heart are purified, not only are we able to feel the peace
and the calmness, we are able to feel the deep joy, love and
light that radiates from the core of our heart. At any
time we can then just stop, do nothing and realize and feel that
the Love is sweetly pulling us deeper into the Love….toward
the core inside of our heart. And this never stops if we allow
it to take us there. When the clouds of impurity surrounding
our hearts are dissolved, then the love and light can be experienced
without obstruction in its purest joy.
Why we are here?
The ultimate purpose of our life is
to love the True Source completely with all of our heart. To
our head/brain, this statement might seem debatable. However,
the core of our heart, which is calling us ‘back
home’ to the Source of Love and Light, knows this to
be true. But the direct path home to the cherished
goals of our existence can only happen by embracing and surrendering
completely to the purest love - the most subtle, most sublime
form of love – that of the Ultimate Source of all. It is
only through this purest love that our essence of being can
return home.
We are being invited to open our hearts and
be instruments of Love and Light by sharing the blessings of
this love with the hearts of every being. When we
share this love as an instrument, we are also loving the True
Source and getting closer to the home of our True Self. This
means we are getting closer to the Ultimate Destination available
to us. So now is the time for our deepest awakening – loving
The Source of Love and Light completely with our heart and whole
being and becoming the instrument of light and love that we are
intended to be.
Our life on earth is a great gift. Let
us celebrate this gift by being as happy as True Source means
us to be, by opening our beautiful hearts and by letting the
Love and Light radiate to all.
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and What is Our Heart?
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